Teaching young children how to make basic requests is a vital step in developing their communication skills. Whether a child is verbal, uses gestures, or relies on AAC, these essential phrases help them express their needs clearly and confidently. This set of 6 practical communication messages teaches children how to ask for more, request help, indicate what they want, stop an activity, signal they are finished, and ask to open something. Each phrase is paired with a clear everyday situation, making it easier for children to understand when and why to use them.
Why Basic Requests Matter
Basic requests empower children to participate actively in their environment and reduce frustration by giving them tools to express themselves. According to the American Speech-Language-Hearing Association, teaching functional communication skills early supports social interaction and independence (ASHA Early Communication Skills).
6 Essential Basic Requests
- MORE PLEASE – Used when a child wants more of something, such as food or play.
- HELP ME – A request for assistance, encouraging children to seek support when needed.
- I WANT THIS – Helps children indicate a specific item they desire.
- STOP – Allows children to pause or halt an activity that is uncomfortable or unwanted.
- ALL DONE – Communicates completion of an activity or meal.
- OPEN – Used to ask for something to be opened, like a door or container.
How Parents Can Practice These Phrases Naturally
Model these phrases in daily routines without forcing repetition. For example, say “More please” when offering snacks and pause to give your child a chance to respond. Pair words with gestures or visual supports, such as pointing or picture cards, to reinforce meaning. Provide real opportunities for your child to use these phrases, like asking for help opening a container or indicating when they are all done with a meal. Celebrate all attempts at communication, whether spoken, gestured, or using AAC. Remember, patience and positive reinforcement are key.
For more ideas on encouraging communication through choices, see our article on Making Choices: 6 Essential Communication Phrases for Young Children.
Try This at Home
During snack time, model “More please” and wait for your child’s response. If they struggle, gently guide them by pointing or using a picture card. When your child finishes eating, encourage “All done” by modeling the phrase and showing the empty plate. Use “Help me” when you need assistance, prompting your child to reciprocate. These natural moments help your child learn functional communication without pressure.
What basic requests does your child use most often? Share your experience below!
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