Taking Turns: 6 Essential Communication Phrases for Young Children
Teaching young children how to take turns is a vital social communication skill that helps them engage positively with peers, share resources, and build friendships. This set of 6 essential communication phrases for taking turns equips children with practical words and gestures they can use in everyday play or classroom settings to express their needs and respect others.
Why Teach Taking Turns Communication?
Taking turns is more than just waiting; it involves recognizing others’ needs, managing impulses, and using language or alternative communication methods to negotiate playtime. Children who learn to communicate about turns effectively are better able to participate in group activities and develop social confidence.
6 Practical Phrases for Taking Turns
- MY TURN – Used when the child wants to have a turn with a toy or activity.
- YOUR TURN – Indicates the child is giving the turn to someone else.
- CAN I HAVE A TURN? – A polite request to join in or use a toy.
- THANK YOU – Expresses gratitude after receiving a turn.
- WAIT PLEASE – Helps the child ask for patience while waiting.
- ALL DONE – Signals the child has finished and is ready to pass the turn.
How Parents Can Practice These Phrases Naturally
Model these phrases during everyday play without forcing repetition. When playing with your child or siblings, narrate your actions: say “Your turn,” then “My turn,” and encourage your child to try the phrases by giving them real opportunities to request or give turns. Use gestures, pointing, or picture cards alongside words to support understanding. Offer simple choices like “Do you want to wait or have a turn now?” and pause to allow your child time to respond. Celebrate all attempts at communication to build confidence and positive associations.
For more helpful communication phrases, you might also find our posts on Making Choices and Asking for a Break useful.
Try It Today!
Next time your child plays with others, encourage them to use these phrases to take turns. How does your child like to ask for a turn? Share your experiences below!
