Playing at the playground is fun, but sometimes children need to use words or other ways to tell others what they want or feel. This post teaches 6 useful phrases children can use to communicate clearly and kindly while playing outside. These phrases help children ask for help, share feelings, take turns, and join friends.
1. HELP ME
When something is tricky, like a swing that won’t move, a child can say or show “HELP ME”. This lets adults or friends know they need a hand.
2. MORE PLEASE
If a child wants more sand to play with or more time on a toy, “MORE PLEASE” is a polite way to ask. They can say it, point, or use a picture card.
3. I WANT THIS
When a child sees a toy or game they want, “I WANT THIS” helps them express their interest without grabbing. Pointing or using AAC works well here.
4. MY TURN
Waiting can be hard! “MY TURN” is a helpful phrase to remind others gently that it’s time to share the slide, swing, or ball.
5. TOO LOUD
Playgrounds can be noisy. If sounds feel too loud, children can say or show “TOO LOUD” to let adults know they need a quieter space or a break.
6. CAN I PLAY?
Joining a game is easier with “CAN I PLAY?” This phrase invites others to include the child in fun activities.
Parents can model these phrases naturally by using them during play, showing gestures or picture cards, and giving children time to respond. Remember, communication can be speech, sign, pointing, or AAC. Celebrate every attempt!
For more ways to support your child’s communication, see What Can I Say When I Need Something? and My Doctor’s Office Words.
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